Brutally Honest Marriage Audit

1. How respected do you feel by your wife? *

I feel invisible — like I barely exist

She tolerates me, not respects me

Some days I get respect, most days I don’t

I think she still respects me — barely

She respects me

2. How present are you at home — mentally and emotionally? *

I check out the second I walk through the door

I’m physically home but not really there

I’m halfway present, halfway distracted

I’m here, but it’s hit or miss

I show up on purpose and my family feels it

3. How clearly do you communicate with your wife? *

I shut down or sugarcoat everything

I speak, but I edit myself out of fear

I talk, but not about what matters

I’m clear most of the time

I say what needs to be said — no hiding, no hesitation

4. Have you taken real ownership for your part in the breakdown of your marriage? *

I still make it about her

I blame her quietly, even though I know better

I’ve looked in the mirror but not long enough

I’ve owned up — mostly

I’ve taken full responsibility and started rebuilding from there

5. If your daughter married a man like you, how would you honestly feel? *

Sick to my stomach

Disappointed and ashamed

Torn — some good, too much bad

Pretty proud, but I know I can do better

I’d be proud — because I lead with integrity and strength

6. How seriously do you take your role as the leader of your home? *

I’ve handed that job over completely

I avoid leading because I’m lost myself

I only lead when forced to

I try, but it’s inconsistent

I lead with clarity, strength, and daily intention

7. What emotional tone do you bring into your home? *

I’m the storm that wrecks everything

I fuel the chaos

I’m flat — no help, no harm

I help settle the storm

I bring calm, clarity, and grounded strength every day

8. Does your wife know what you truly stand for? *

She has no clue who I am

All she sees is silence or anger

She knows pieces of me

She sees my values show up most days

She knows exactly who I am — and why I do what I do

9. How honest have you been with yourself about your marriage? *

I avoid the truth because it’s uncomfortable

I minimize the real damage

I’ve admitted small pieces — but held back

I’ve told myself most of it

I’ve faced the hard truth and I’m ready to act

10. If nothing changes in the next 90 days, what’s really at stake? *

Honestly? I don’t care anymore

She’ll lose more trust — and I know it

My kids already feel the tension

I’m on the edge of losing everything

It’s already slipping through my fingers — this is the last shot

11. Are you willing to invest in your marriage — time, energy, money — or are you still hoping it’ll fix itself? *

I’m hoping it just magically works out

I’ll put in effort, but only if she changes first

I’ll do something, but not if it costs me too much

I’m ready to invest, but I haven’t moved yet

I’m all in — whatever it takes, I’m done playing small

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